POF : i give up
i give up on this garbage site i know its not the site fault it doesnt work for me but im tired of trying to use it over and over again i think i have a problem and i need help. ive been doing this on and off for years and idk what else to do. I sign up and try for a while with 0 luck than i delete my profile get lonely/bored/sad about it than i sign up again with no luck and delete it again than eventually its a pattern and im tired of feeling this way.
By. xRoseColoredBoyx
The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results.
The only suggestion I can offer is that you don’t write well. You might start by improving your written English.
But there is no guarantee you will ever do well because many people don’t succeed in OLD. I’m one of them.
I understand the frustration (been there, doing that), but wow, you’ve posted like, four of these in the span of 24 – 48 hours on this sub, and although I’m just a casual lurker something tells me that if you’re approach on POF is anything like that, you need to take a step back and re-evaluate/chill.
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I would definitely suggest taking some time for yourself and « date yourself » as they say. Work on you and getting to know « xRoseColoredBoyx » more.
I’m done with pof to I never get any replies and when a woman gives me her number if we get that far. They ghost me immediately that site is filled with nothing attention craving women that aren’t serious about dating or meeting it’s pure garbage littered with fakes I had better luck in 2013 compared to now I had lots of dates and there where no fake profiles or spam and women seemed more interested meeting.
What do the pictures you use on your profile look like?
What kinds of messages do you send to women?
How do you describe yourself?
Online dating is rough, but if you live near a major population center, put a significant amount of effort into online dating, and never get any responses, the problem is how you present yourself. Link your profile, and maybe we can be helpful.
You’re a loser, OP. Face it. While I agree POF sucks, the bigger picture here is your mental illness.