in

POF : I got jipped

POF : I got jipped


Hey ladies and gentlemen of the r/POF community,

I am here to speak about the incident that affected me last night. It began with an initial plan for me to get a hotel room so I could spend time with a woman [WO]. I waited some time for her to come.

WO finally showed up, I gave her the money so she could see a plug about a dub. She left her stuff in my hotel room and she told me that she would come back. About four hours in, I realized that she may not come back. I have not heard from WO all night.

Next morning, I woke up to find out that WO has blocked me from all social media. If it weren’t for the fact that she left her shit in my room, I wouldn’t have bothered to contact her at all. Unfortunately, however, that was the case.

Therefore, I contacted WO through an alternate social media account to inform her that if she does not return by 11am (the latest time I have to check out of my room), she will be responsible for the stuff she left.

I have concluded that she has indeed bailed on plans and I have wasted money I do not have on a hotel room for no reason.

Moral of the story: If you ever make plans with someone and they leave in the middle (and blocked you on social media), they should not be trusted. Also, if you expect me to spend money on making things happen, I expect you to commit to those things and to be grateful for what I do.

People may think it is not about the money, it’s about the principle of the matter. However, even though it is about the principle of the matter, it is also about the fact that money is not free and people work their asses off to make the bread. I do not have the time, the energy, and the money to be playing games like that. I am too old for this shit.

If you cannot respect the person spending money to make things happen, you should not expect them to come around for you in the future. In other words, if you cannot respect me, you should not be expecting me to foot the bill in the future. In fact, I will automatically cut you off. I’m dead fucking serious.

Thank you for reading and if the word choice isn’t your cup of tea, feel free to comment.


By. mboliver205

Read also  POF : If I didn't have a sense of humour there's no way I could keep online dating. 😳

What do you think?

22 Points
Upvote Downvote

6 Comments

Leave a Reply
  1. That’s why I always bring money to cover myself . If I’m not feeling it or uncomfortable I can pay for my stuff and leave . Just the right thing to do. If I tell you I’m coming to the hotel rooms it’s happening. Unless he fucks itself up on his own . Just saying .

  2. Also… The first date should never be at a hotel. I get you want to get laid … As a woman who is on POF. I will never meet at a hotel first time. Hotel bar maybe …. always a public place. If we click that well I’ll split the room .

  3. Her stuff but it has no id , no money and women wear cheap clothes on occasion you’ve never shopped for a woman or you’d be able to tell if it was forever 21 clothing that costs 20$ or some nice stuff

Laisser un commentaire

Votre adresse e-mail ne sera pas publiée. Les champs obligatoires sont indiqués avec *

Dating : A Beautiful Place

Tinder : Plot twist