POF : Is this person real? Why would they do this?
A beautiful girl agreed to a date on pof. We exchanged numbers and we got to know each other a bit over the course of a couple days prior to a date time she agreed to within a few days. She asked to move the date time sooner, which I obliged. I wait 30 minutes past the date time and she no shows to the date. She gets back to me saying her toddle stole her phone. Reschedules for 3 hours later. Doesn’t show again. Responds later that night that she fell asleep waiting for me and was really sorry and it wouldn’t happen again. We text later that day and I tell her to set a time that works for her and told her nonchalantly it was the 2nd strike. She said she was on her way, as she was just sitting watching tv. I should head down there and meet her there in an hour. Asks me for a pic, doesnt respond and doesnt show up. Doesnt ever get back to me. I didnt give her any sensitive info. What exactly was she (if it was a she) trying to accomplish. How do you avoid getting your chain yanked around like that. Why would she invest so much time in getting to know me? I am not upset emotionally, just trying to learn from this so I can maybe meet my future wife eventually,