POF : Let’s generalize women.
Why the actual fuck do they think its normal to just stop talking and ignore a guy without saying a single thing?
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Why do they think its normal to cancel a date on a stupid petty lie that we can see right through, its so unlikely a big event would coincide with the exact date and time we arranged, do they think we are stupid?.
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Uhh uh because men are mean to us if we are honest with them so we have to be passive aggressive, lie all the time and obscure our motives.
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NO, shitty men are mean, decent men will respect the honesty and gracefully leave you to pursue someone genuine, fuck this « its all the men’s fault and we have to be cruel to all of them on the off chance men are mean to us »
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FUCK OFF
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Sincerely, pissed off guy who’s never mean to women and gets treated like shit by most of them, so suck a donkey dick you flaky, cowardly trash heaps, the ones that are graceful, respectful and civilized?, keep being you, don’t let a minority of shitty guys turn you into a hateful bloated battleaxe that shits on everyone.
By. Serveradman
/r/niceguys
First of all guys do this too. I don’t do this to guys. The reason why a lot of us women don’t bother responding is because 95% of the time we get nasty messages telling us to FUCK OFF. You say you are a nice guy but the things you just said about women make me think otherwise! This is most likely why women stop talking to you no offense
From my experience, women on dating sites have a lot of options, they play the field. They are also shady as fuck. Seriously it is a waste of time. Go to a bar, club, anywhere you can meet women. The myth that women on a dating site are looking for a serious relationship is a joke and the girl in the club or bar is a slutty is ridiculous. Most women on a dating site are not hot, interesting in the least but they have a captive audience of endless guys telling them how beautiful they are and so on. All it takes is some good pics, a good Fakebook page, instasham account and you will be swimming in mediocre pussy. Don’t get me wrong, I have met some good women off dating sites but for the most part it is a really shallow pool, meaning shallow people. It is a lot of work for little show.
Becoming strong and independent comes more or less from personal growth and experience. You’re correct in saying that we live in a society where women are standing up for their rights and feel more liberated than ever but that’s a whole other ballgame when it comes to her love life, in most cases. Many women know what they want but are too scared to fight for it due to self confidence issues, history, etc. Where are you primarily looking in terms of meeting women?
Well, I have to say. I think it is on both sides. I think there are nice women who don’t do this and shitty ones. There are shitty men and nice guys.
My observation: It is easier for a shitty person to change a nice person to shitty than it is for a nice person to change a shitty person to nice. Therefore there are a lot more shitty people.
People have lives, a lot of people with online dating are bored at that time you made a connection.
So, let’s approach this in a manner both parties can get behind and understand, you never know it might become a thing between the two of can use to banter with each other over.
This is what I do, I message at the beginning that we’re going to use the 4’s system from now on. We both have to get past these 4’s.
4 messages (especially one-word replies)
4 direct text
4 hours
4 days
4 calls
4 meets
I’ve had a lot tell me that they can pass them easily, 4 days is the biggest hurdle so far. I give them a heads up message that we’re fixing to disconnect, unmatched, unfriend or get deleted within the next 4 hours because we haven’t communicated. There are no exceptions, I don’t care how beautiful they are, maybe another time we’ll meet.
This will help you in a lot of ways, you have set guidelines, you’re taking charge of the connection and you have something to close with and move on.
Just got flaked on this weekend. Got her good doe. She lied about how she was hung over so I texted her with my Google voice #. That dirty hoe responded showing me shes got numerous text threads and doesnt even know me. I asked her what she was up to on the fake voice #. Said she was going out later. Screenshoted and sent that shit to her. Said bye felicia and that was that. Lieing bitch
Ignoring and ghosting is preferable because women don’t like confrontation and it would mean having to deal with talking to the guy more when they just want it over with
Wow. Ok. I’ll have to say that women can be bat shit crazy in terms of their emotions. I’ve online dated some since being divorced and have heard horror stories from men. In my opinion there are several reasons. 1. Their past. If you’re not emotionally healed, don’t start dating again. I’ve seen it with men as well. You can’t go into dating thinking all men are assholes and you’re going to find your next let down. 2. Although age really doesn’t have overall much to do with this, it kind of does. I’m 42 and I don’t play games. If I’m not digging a connection with a guy, I let him know up front. Younger women are naive at times without having much experience and they don’t to hurt you nor face conflict. The world of dating can suck a big one! Mind games, I know, but we keep doing it until we find what we want.