POF : Men its time to delete our accounts
Hi…..I’ve been on and off POF for nearly three years, which I’ve finally decided to delete my profile and urge other men who genuinely are looking for a relationship to also delete their accounts, which I’m not going to rant as men know exactly what pof is like…..I cant believe I’ve wasted precious time on dating sites (POF, Oasis) and they really do make you feel negative about yourself because the pof defenders will always blame you, your photos and your profile again and again…..They’ll never EVER address the truth.
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I`ll be honest and say I’m quite shy / nervous to approach women but I’ve slowly started chatting to women in person and compared to dating sites. it is like night and day…..At the end of the day if sites like POF work for you then great but for the majority of men they really don’t and I doubt all men are ugly ogres.
By. Miggymoggy
Yes. Excellent idea! You guys all delete your accounts. I’ll be sure to delete mine too, as soon as the rest of you are gone. Honest!
Just delete mine…. I got tired of only bot/scammer only talking to me… POF has become complete rubbish now. It’s sad. I have been on the site for a while now and it’s really gone down hill. The options for deleting are kinds funny since you cannot give your own reason for leaving.
> I cant believe I’ve wasted precious time on dating sites (POF, Oasis) and they really do make you feel negative about yourself…
The only way a dating site can make yourself feel negative, is if you have unrealistic expectations and think there is some magic formula or you have to be a super model to make it work.
> …because the pof defenders will always blame you, your photos and your profile again and again…..They’ll never EVER address the truth.
Does anyone ever point out that finding someone that you want to be with as much as they want to be with you is not an easy thing to do and that the whole process it literally just chance?
So blaming a profile, or a web site is unnecessary anger, as ultimately it is out of your control.
was on pof for years, but went month or so ago and haven’t missed it for one second, relief to be rid of its shitness.
Sorry, I can feel your pain
Here, I have a great sub for someone like you: r/Braincels