POF : Please don’t judge
My wife and I have had a fractured relationship for years (like at least 2 decades). For reasons that are not entirely selfish, I have not left her. I consider us separated.
I would like to start exploring POF in the hope that I can finally get some companionship. I intend to be completely forthright with anyone I meet there about my situation. However, I do not want my photographs to be available to the public for fear that a friend or acquaintance of my wife identify me. Obviously, I would share pictures with anyone on POF requesting them.
I really would prefer not to be lectured here; things have not been easy for either my wife or myself. I would like some advice on how to optimize my chances of meeting someone fun on POF without initially posting personal photographs.