POF : Profile Help?
Yes its awful. Im already sure I should take down some of those pics, anyone wanna confirm which ones? Also probably a better headline and content. I’m so bad at this.
http://www.pof.com/viewprofile.aspx?profile_id=80338975
By. jf93
I’m going to teach you a lesson in how to make a great profile:
Always, and always start with great pictures. If I came up to you as a girl and you showed me a picture of you of when you were like 5, how attractive would you really be to me? I’m using an extreme example but it gets the point across. You can not simply just slap you 10 most recent pictures on a profile and expect to get laid. Some effort is required here.
Take pictures that are clear, concise and to the point. You got to show that you are an interesting unique person. I always make a rule of 1 of each of the following: One picture of everyday you, one picture of dressed up you, one picture with friends, and one picture of you doing your hobbies or interests.
Next you have to write a profile that isn’t so chalk full of insecurities! Be confident and talk about what you are good at, stop focusing on whether you are introvert or not. That doesn’t matter here on the internet. What matters is what you type. I’d argue that if you can’t write something positive about yourself, you should see a shrink and not a date. A woman won’t fix you, only you can 🙂
Talk about your hobbies your interests and be unique. Don’t make the profile a shopping list like everyone else. Have a way of standing out with your own spin on things. Use stuff like humor or interests to really make your profile worth reading. (Example: if I was really into say… Batman I’d make my whole profile a theme with the Batman Universe written into it) Stop being like everyone else airing out their wants and needs and just be yourself.
WHAT IS JAKE ABOUT? Think about that.
I just won’t settle for anything less than perfect and neither should you. When you reach that level of confidence it gives you the results you deserve, and women notice. Stop worrying about what other people think and ask yourself what do I think? Back yourself up and don’t back down when others tell you otherwise. If you like country music, say so and say it loud. Just don’t let the rest of the world convince you that the idea of that music isn’t the « right » way to listen to music. Be confident and never give up the chance to be yourself.
Dating is always hit and miss. Have you been sending messages to girls? You can’t expect to put up a profile and just reep the benefits. You have to put yourself out there and leap out of your comfort zone. Actually read the profiles of the women, and hold a decent conversation. Grammar is huge here! If u talk like Dis, u wunt git layd. You won’t even get a response!
I read your profile again and I think you just need to stop talking about yourself like you did something wrong. There is nothing wrong with wanting to have companionship and being shy. If there is something wrong with it it is up to you to decide that and change that behaviour. Only you can change you. No one else.