POF : Too good to be true
I M 35 met a F 34 on pof about a week and a half ago. Hit it off, really well. Gonna meet at the end of the month. But a few things make me wonder, one she will only text, says her phone has issues with reception. Two, she sends me pictures, but they seem out of place at times, example one is her hair up and wearing a gray shirt, next one is hair down wearing a white shirt. Two different areas of a house and times. Three, she answers half of my messages. Like I will ask her stuff about her, she will answer it, then I ask how her day was or what’s for dinner and she doesn’t respond. I ask how it’s going or how her kid is and then I get we are fine and that’s it.
Four, big one, her number is a different state entirely and she said she got it when she worked there and never changed it, but when I called her the other day it said it’s a text mail number and the recipient is unavailable. Besides the fact we hit it off and she texts daily, it’s kinda throwing me off on if she is legit or playing me. I don’t want to think she is, but you never know these days. Any advice?
By. jadeddessertnomad
Doesn’t sound good, not gonna lie
Ask her to send you a photo of her holding the local newspaper of the current day, if she gets mad.
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You have to understand that alot of women on POF love to string guys along. They do shit like this because at the end of the day, they want an ego boost and validation, so they’ll talk to several guys at a time and pull the shit she’s pulling with you. The out of state number can be a red flag, but I’ve hooked up with women that had out of state numbers, so there’s that. Try to set up the date sooner, and try to fuck her, you might still have a chance.
Playing you. Move on.
Ages a scammer
She’s a scammer
I just write something(like their name)on the palm of My hand with a marker. That usually convinces most reasonable people.
This is why a couple of my profile pics include local landmarks in the background. Helps reinforce that I am, in fact, local. Outdoor pics will sometimes give them away (wrong kinds of trees, architectural styles, license plate colors, etc).