POF : Too harsh?
Too harsh?
By. randomperson9090
POF : Too harsh?
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What’s the « XXX » mean….
You have more fortitude than I. I might have done the polite refusal after the first message but that second one would have sent me running. Guys like that are typically the ones that devolve into nastiness if you respond with a refusal. Good on ya for reaching out anyway.
Nah, you good.
Based on other dating app convos I’ve seen on Reddit, you were for sure on the kind side.
Not harsh, direct is good. Me personally, I think we should still invest time in people because they may match with us but we don’t realize it yet, but then again, sometimes a hard pass is a hard pass.
Where did you get the idea you were harsh?, you gave him reasons and what you are looking for, that’s about as civilized as it gets.
You were polite and honest…. My response would have been « Thank you for your response. » If he says anything else he’s just being a dick.
Nah.. totally fine.
Pretty good actually. I would prefer stuff like this much more than just being ignored.
Honest and to the point. You were kind, really. I think that’s the perfect response.
P.s. I love seeing the Irishisms. Makes me miss living in Dublin.