POF : What did I do wrong?
I am brand new to OLD. Ive never used them before, Ive been on Tinder and POF for 4 days. The last few days Ive been exchanging messages with a woman on POF in a neighboring town. Just light banter back and forth. In her bio she mentions having three kids and their ages of 2 and 12yo twins. And she works in the medical field, Im guessing as some type of nurse. The last message I sent was
« Well I imagine you don’t have a lot of spare time with young kids and work, do yall do anything on weekends or your off time? »
She didn’t reply and she blocked me on there. Is it poor edicate to mention her kids or what? Don’t know if I violated some unwritten rule or something.
By. life_on_the_farm
She was using you for attention and bailed when shit got real
I doubt you did anything wrong. Seems like a harmless question to me. She wasn’t feeling it and didn’t want to talk anymore. She could have told you versus blocking. That was cowardly.
You did nothing wrong. You dodged a bullet, not that there appeared to be much engagement from the other side.
As the meme goes on reddit: NEXT!
Ok, thanks all. Not hung up on it, just didnt know if I broke edicate by mentioning kids or something. Wanted to make sure for future interactions.
Don’t sweat the small things you did nothing wrong she actually did you a favor and didn’t let you waste your time plenty of other fish in the ocean! Good luck…
She’s just another idiot.
Their profile can be plastered with, « my kids r my lyfe » type comments.
Never ask about the kids if you’re interested in the girl, it’s a quick way to get blocked no matter how good looking you are.
free sites are just for quick bangs or instant attention, only serious relationships i can find anymore online are on pay sites.
Have fun with it! Go out with as many girls as you can and wear a condom. Don’t get hung up or catch feelings after the first date and just be yourself.