POF : What’s your go-to opening line? Or what’s something that’s drawn you in? Feel like I’m swimming upstream.
Hope it’s ok to post this? I’ve discovered that in the world of OLD when it comes to starting a conversation I go completely blank. I think I’ve been traumatised by receiving no replies when I’ve put max effort in so I second guess every time I go to write a message.
Most people say “don’t just say hi, start a conversation” but as I said, my mind shuts down completely and I’m not even sure where to start.
And the messages I usually get are just “hi” or something overtly sexual. Also not exactly engaging or encouraging.