POF : Why do I see ‘random road trips’ as an interest on almost every girl’s profile?
And don’t forget traveling. Everybody loves to travel to exotic places and explore new coffee shops and restaurants around the city. As if it’s a defining intellectual quality.
I’m prepared to be down voted, but it doesn’t make any sense. Doesn’t everybody like to travel? It doesn’t make sense to stay in one place for the rest of your life if you have money to go somewhere different.
By. PM_ME_UR_STOCKPICKS
Because they are lazy and know that desperate guys will send them messages no matter what…
It’s a very effective way of making a personal values statement with very few characters in a dating profile. Think about all the things travel and adventure imply:
1. I want new experiences that are different from my daily routine
2. I want to date someone of middle class income or better
3. I want to date someone who has the initiative to do these things now rather than waiting for retirement
4. I want to date someone who is open-minded and not at all judgemental about other cultures
5. I enjoy spending time in nature and museums rather than staying in
Is it cliche? Sure. But it works really well for weeding out unsuitable partners who won’t share those values.
I’ve met people who don’t travel. I’m about to become one of them. I do love a road trip though.
Girls love fitting in. Especially “basic” girls who seem to have infiltrated online dating en masse (mostly Tinder and Bumble). It’s almost as if they look and evaluate each other’s profiles and then copy one another as to make sure they fit in. Women are mainly about trends. So if women start saying “I’m a dog mom” don’t expect for it to be long before almost all women are doing it
Sounds mean, but it’s the truth. I absolutely detest these kinds of cookie cutter women.
She’s trying to tell you she wants to go away with you for the weekend once in a while.
Basic man profile:
Interests: cars, sports, kayaking
Main pic: at the gym lifting their shirt to show their abs or laying in bed like they just woke up.
Occasionally one in a public bathroom throwing a peace sign.
Honorable mention: School of Hard Knocks
They put them on there because they’d like to do that. And so do I. They are a lot of fun to do together.
Another cliche is « Love to laugh ». Almost half of all women’s profiles at my age have that. Also all their kids are « amazing » whether teen age or now adult.
But so what if they all put similar stuff? I’m sure we do it too. Let’s ask them.