the 6 (almost) infallible signs!
When we chat with a woman by text, it is not always easy to determine if she is ATTRACTED to us …
… Or if she considers us her best sexless buddy (RIP).
So as not to end up in the depths of the friendzone, it is important to learn to DETECT whether a woman is interested or not.
Because it is very frustrating to waste a lot of time with a woman who is not attracted, and who will end up sticking a big rake on you!
We agree, you don’t want to look like the gentleman below, do you?
✅ In this article, I present to you the most RELIABLE SIGNS OF INTEREST to find out if a woman appeals to you… by a SIMPLE analysis of her texts!
I also share with you the 2 eliminatory errors that destroy all your chances of sleeping with her, especially NOT to commit.
So, is she interested or does she just want a friendly relationship?
⭐ How to know if he likes me by SMS: the 6 signs of interest that never fail!
We men are known for our strength, manhood and courage.
On the other hand, we are BRÊLES assumed when it comes to reading between the lines.
Unfortunately for our Cartesian (typically male) brains, women LOVE sending SUBTLE signals.
❌ Problem: they escape us 90% of the time.
And when we catch the 10%, the lack of self-confidence ends the job: we don’t believe it.
“I have to make films for myself…”
At the end of the day, we still do NOT know if a woman is interested.
✅ To help you in your quest for seduction, here are the 6 UNIVERSAL signs that will let you know if this girl is flirting with you by texting (or if you made it all up!).
✅1 /: She Raises you and sends the first message
For a human relationship to develop properly, there is a principle of RECIPROCITY.
✅ Each of the people involved must make a relatively proportional effort to BUILD a balanced relationship.
In other words, if you’re the ONLY one to revive a girl you’re interested in, there’s a good chance she isn’t interested.
Conversely, if your target often raises you, it’s a solid sign that they are attracted to you.
She appreciates your PRESENCE, your CONVERSATION, and it is the starting point of a frenzied flirtation.
Likewise, if she sends the first message when a conversation comes to an end, you have a valuable clue here.
✅ A woman who RAISES you is a woman who seeks your company.
✅2 /: She uses a lot of emojis 😂😘😏
The more a woman is EMOTIONALLY involved in a conversation, the more she will want to describe her emotions with emojis.
In a woman: emojis = emotion! (and here is the secret)
Conversely ? A woman who doesn’t LOVE you will be detached and cordial… and will use very few emoticons.
✅ So, if her lyrics are FULL of smiling faces, even sexy little kisses, it’s a safe bet that you won’t leave her indifferent …
(And will soon be able to send him cucumber emojis without embarrassment 🍆).
⚠️ WARNING : Beware of generation SHOCK: a 50 year old woman will naturally use LESS emojis than an 18 year old woman.
Do not confuse ATTRACTION and CULTURE, which are not always linked.
Whether or not to use emojis is a CLUE, not an immutable law.
✅3 /: She writes A LOT more than you do
A healthy and balanced discussion is a discussion where both parties GET INVOLVED (more or less) on an EQUALITY basis.
❌ As soon as one of them monopolizes the floor (or ejects himself from the conversation), the discussion is doomed to failure.
The best interactions are those that look like eloquence contests!
You know, when you feel like you have THOUSANDS to say to the girl you want …
… And she answers you with sandwiches, just as dense and soft as you!
✅ At a glance, you can estimate a woman’s LEVEL OF INVOLVEMENT in a conversation, and therefore deduce her level of attraction to you.
In this example, you don’t have to be a genius to understand that this woman is very attracted.
✅ Be observant, and compare his SPEAKER RATE against yours!
✅4 /: She gives you compliments (even indirect ones)
A woman who compliments you is a woman who feels ADMIRATION for you.
And admiration is an emotion very close to ATTRACTION.
✅ So, if your target recognizes your dolphin INTELLIGENCE, lion PHYSICS or hyena HUMOR, you’re on the right track!
⚠️ Sometimes some compliments are not obvious to pick up because they are indirect.
The compliment “I think you are funny” can be disguised as “Have you ever thought of becoming a comedian?”.
✅ Anything she says to show off, even for a laugh, is a compliment in disguise.
So, Madame can compliment:
- Your humor
- Your insurance
- Your physique
- Your manhood
- Your intelligence
On the other hand, beware of compliments about your “kindness”.
No one ever fucked because he was only nice.
To flirt with and attract a girl, you have to be SPICY and INDOMPTABLE.
So listen to the praises that your target sings to you, and estimate their attraction to you.
❌ A woman who is NOT interested does not take the time to be interested in you or to compliment you.
✅5 /: She laughs at all your jokes (even the crappy ones)
An interested woman is a woman who LAUGHS easily.
The more relaxed and comfortable she is with you, the more receptive she will be to your humor.
And this, no matter how good your joke (I see you the experts on bad puns).
✅ Humor is a powerful APHRODISIAC for women.
They may even laugh to let you know that they like you.
This is their way of sending you a positive signal: “You’re FUNNY and I like it, take me down on the living room table for heaven’s sake”.
It is therefore a virtuous circle: the more Madame laughs at your nonsense, the greater the probabilities of POUTRING her.
So you know what you have to do to boost women’s signs of interest!
⚠️ Be careful not to fall into the BURLESQUE: making a girl laugh with a toto joke does NOT improve seduction.
✅ Try to keep humor thin and light, because the more subtle it is, the better (you are not a circus clown).
Note that here again, this is a clue and not PROOF of interest.
Some women have a heightened sense of humor and are therefore “good audiences”.
A woman who laughs isn’t always sexually attracted to you.
✅6 /: The conversation is FLUID, with no downtime!
There are two types of SMS exchanges:
- ✅ The super pleasant exchange: the girl you flirt with gets involved. She asks questions, initiates new topics of conversation, and contributes to the flow of the discussion.
- ❌ The nightmarish exchange (absolute horror): the girl you want answers as few characters as possible, she ends the discussions with emoticons, and does NOTHING to keep the discussion going.
The first exchange gives you a solid indication of how attractive a woman is to you.
✅ An interested girl will do ANYTHING to make you understand that she is attracted to you.
She will be involved, and will be a PILLAR of the discussion: there will be no shadow of a doubt about her willingness to keep the interaction alive.
❌ Conversely, the one who is not attracted to you will not make ANY EFFORT to retain your attention.
She will be carried away by your efforts (to save the furniture), and WILL DISAPPEAR the instant you let go.
Learn to differentiate between these two types of chats, and try never to invest too much energy with a woman who isn’t repaying you.
⭐ ATTENTION: if you want to please him, absolutely avoid these 2 eliminatory errors …
The signs that a woman likes you are often EXPRESS.
But some men are never satisfied with it, and seek to obtain a formal PROOF.
This obsessive behavior often leads to making mistakes that destroy the beginning of romance.
Here are the 2 MISTAKES to never make so as not to stifle the beginning of your seduction.
1st mistake: asking the coveted girl if she likes you
❌ One of the most common mistakes is asking EXPRESSLY, that is, in words, if the girl likes you.
By asking this question, you display a flagrant lack of self-confidence, which will tend to BELIEVE you.
You give off an image of a teenager who needs reassurance before taking action.
⚠️ Asking words about an attraction DESTROYS the magic of flirting.
Imagine: you are at the cinema, and watching a romantic movie.
At the end of the film, after having turned around throughout the film, the two main characters look at each other intensely, slowly approaching each other …
Suddenly, one of them abruptly stops the action and asks: “Uh… can I kiss you? You seem interested… ”
Feel the feeling of DISCONTINUATION that this will engender …
The nuptial ballet of seduction that would be instantly blocked, letting all the sexual tension fly away.
The emotions that would be parasitized by the rational logic of words.
Believe me, you don’t want this to happen to you, so don’t make the mistake of asking a woman to CONFESS her interest in you.
Hearing it does nothing more.
Also, remember that women expect YOU to take the first step.
If you ask them to admit their attraction, you are forcing them to take on the role of DOMINANT, because you are putting the whole weight of the relationship on their shoulders.
Panicking, a woman could even answer “no” when she thinks the opposite!
✅ In short, NEVER ask a woman if she likes you by text (otherwise I will show up at your house and make you spit your teeth).
If you think she’s interested, assume she is.
Use the 6 signs of interest to identify if a woman is attracted to you, and go back to your instincts.
Deep inside you, a little voice guides you and gives you valuable information about life.
✅ Learn to detach yourself from conscious and BRAIN matters, and focus on your primary sensations.
Your BODY is often more precise than your MIND when it comes to finding out if there is attraction.
❌ Likewise, on your side, never tell a woman that you are interested in her.
You would instantly destroy the seduction game, which would break the excitement and destroy the mystery.
✅ Attraction is not shared with WORDS but with ACTS.
2nd mistake: do NOT interpret the signs of interest individually
❌ There is nothing worse than gauging a woman’s interest by coolly ticking boxes on a chalkboard.
- Just because a woman uses smileys doesn’t mean she’s necessarily interested.
- Just because a woman compliments you doesn’t mean she dreams of you at night.
“But uncle Mike, you just told us that…”
❌ NO !
✅ It is the SUM of these signs of interest that certifies the attraction between two people.
So how do you know if a girl is flirting with us?
✅ Concentrate on his GLOBAL behavior, and make an effort to observe the SITUATION from an omniscient point of view.
Judge if the girl you are chatting with seems to seek your company, or if she displays contempt or disinterest in you.
Here again, it is your INSTINCT which must express itself.
Deep inside you, the little voice you …
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