Dating : Am I over thinking?
I (23f) have been seeing this guy (27m) for about a month now. In person I feel like everything is great, but over text, I’m often left on read. Lack of him initiating the conversation. After we see each other in person I’m often neglected for a couple of days till the weekend rolls around. The thing is he sees my snap story but won’t text me back. So I know it isn’t him not having time or not getting it. We haven’t had the « what are we » talk yet but, I don’t know if I want to keep pursuing someone who at time I feel like I’m not someone they want.
Any advice on how to see if this is worth working out would be greatly appreciated.
Or if you think I should let it go before getting too involved.
Tldr: lack of communication is giving me mix signals. J should I continue or let it go?
No use in forcing it girl. He could be interested but don’t wait around for him to make a move. It sounds like he lacks a lot of things I think are important in a new partner, you want someone who is eager to talk to you. I would maybe confront him about it or just move on.
maybe he is just not much of a texter? perhaps something you could talk to him about?
I’m personally not much of a texter either, and I just let guys know that, so that they know it isn’t anything personal