10 signs he’s (really) in love
1. He’s gaga
At first, when you’re in love, you get a little silly. We smile blissfully, we laugh stupidly, we take soft voices like a baby’s, we pout,… In short, love is more powerful than the water of youth and it makes you fall back into it. direct childhood recklessness. So, if when you met him, he played man and now, sometimes, he has the sweetness of a child, it is because he is wonderfully well with you, on his little cloud of love all pink.
2. He really cares about your life
If he talks a lot about him a lot and doesn’t let you place one, it’s dead. On the other hand, if he listens to you, asks you questions about your job, your friends, your family and gives you advice, you can count on him. Warning: his absence when you tell him about your passion for the Bachelor or the super efficiency of the last tampon is not a sign of disenchantment. To talk about « girls » subjects, you have your girlfriends.
3. He makes you come into his privacy
« I had hardly ever said that », « Do you think these underpants fit me well? » « Or – by text just before his job interview – » Diiis, can I call you? Are little sentences which show, in more or less obvious ways, that this man trusts you, that he is ready to lower his shield and make you enter his world. If you like it too, go for it.
4. He wants to make up for the time spent without you
He talks to you about his mother, his sister, his grandfather or Léa, the girl he was in love with in kindergarten… Of his greatest shame in kindergarten, the loss of his first baby tooth and his difficult adolescence ,… In short, of all his past which could help you to know him better and to understand him better.
5. He is tactile / cuddly
A small hand passed behind your back without him even realizing it, a kiss on the tip of your nose, a dust that it removes from your knee or a crumb from your cheek: small marks of tenderness that say all…
6. He loves you for the way you are
In the movie When Harry meets Sally, Harry makes the most beautiful declarations of love to his beautiful: « I love that you have a runny nose when it’s 22 ° C, I love that you take an hour and a half to order a sandwich, I love the little wrinkle you get there when you look at me like I’m crazy. I love that after spending the day with you my clothes are all perfumed by your smell and I love that you are the last person I want to talk to before I go to bed ”. This is love… loving the other, deeply, for who he is. *** Sighs ***
So, if he looks disgusted when he sees three hairs under your armpits, refuses to approach you when you are sick, wants to change your dress style or shows all the signs of a narcissistic pervert, sorry, but he doesn’t like you. Remember this sentence: a « I like you as you are » from Mr. Darcy to Bridget Jones carries more weight than a « I’m crazy about you » from Daniel Cleaver.
7. He lets you be happy
A man who loves you wants your happiness. Even if events of all kinds upset him or bother him deeply (like a cdd abroad, your best friend hunk and your night out with your single girlfriends), if he knows that’s what you are looking for. will make you happy, it will push you to get started.
8. He wants to please you and makes an effort
Whenever you offer him an activity he doesn’t want, he dodges. You ask him to go with you to see this exhibition that makes you want so much? He automatically replies « Naaa c’est zero ». You ask him to take the kids to school for once: « Naaa I have things to do (like hanging out in front of the TV) ». If he is not able to compromise and try to help you, it is because he does not care about your well-being, and therefore he is not in love. On the other hand, if he has postponed an evening with his friends for you, that he comes to take care of you when you have the flu or has sparkling eyes when he gives you a present: there is a good chance that he loves you.
9. He wants to combine « the three levels of social relations »
The three-level rule: when a man (or a woman) is in love, he not only wants to spend time with the person (level 1), discover his friends and family (level 2) and introduce you to his family (level 3) ). Three spheres of intimacy that allow you to get to know others better and share intense moments with them. Next to it, there is an equally crucial 4th level: the one where you live your life on your own. Yes, otherwise you would risk suffocating yourself and missing out on great times!
10. It programs in the medium / long term
« Do you think we’re going to the opera / mountain / abroad » in three months / next summer? If the gentleman projects himself with a smile, it is because he sees himself continuing this beautiful story with you. So, both of you enjoy and maintain this magnificent flame.
(Kitsch music but that goes well with the fall of the article)
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