Dating : One Woman’s Quest for Love in the City of Beijing

When did you first start thinking about dating seriously?

College, I met a responsible man and noticed he treated me differently than other women; that’s the first time I really thought seriously about dating.

Do you have a type of man that you’re looking for, and what’s he like?

I like manly men who are responsible and courageous. As for physical appearance, I tend to be attracted to men who are cleanly shaven. And he should also be hard-working.

How do your parents feel about you being single?

When I was twenty-four, my parents started asking me about my relationships, but since I never met Mr. Right, my parents slowly stopped asking.

What would be a perfect date for you?

First of all, my date should be a genuinely nice guy. He should also match my type which we talked about just now. He should be assertive and pick the spot for our date. He should take care of all the details. It would be great to have a big meal and watch a movie. Also, it would be great if before the date he did some research and already knew what I like to eat and what type of film I want to watch. The location should also be tranquil, and he should be able to hold a conversation on topics that we both enjoy.

How long do you think you need to date someone before you start thinking about marriage?

In terms of actually getting married a year, but if I really, really like him and we’re a match I could consider getting married in half-a-year.

Do you have any conditions for your future husband before you get married?

Ideally would like a man who is willing to live in Beijing. Who has the ability to buy a house in the future. And I would prefer not to live with our in-laws full-time, having them over every once in a while is great though. I want us to have our own space.

How do you feel about international men?

I’m worried that an international man may not be able to stay in China with me for many years, and may worry about the cultural differences such as eating different foods. On the positive side, I like the attitude many international men take towards getting things done in work and life. I also love being treated well, and the concept of a gentleman.

Would you move to another country for a man that you loved?

Maybe, it depends on my working situation. If my job doesn’t require me to stay in China, I would consider moving abroad with my husband.

In all the years you’ve lived so far, what is the sweetest thing a man has ever said to you?

It’s tough to think of something on the spot, but generally, when I’m in a really rough place, and a guy says “有我在” (I’m with you) [Yǒu wǒ zài] this is something I consider very sweet.

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