Dating : 2 Steps to get your girlfriend back guaranteed

Have you had your girlfriend leave you recently? Is she acting cold, distant and does not show the effection she used to have for you? Are you confused to why that is? If yes, dont worry, you are not alone. With over 10 years of experience and have interacted with over 1000’s of clients I know that this is a classical pattern that occurs in all relationships between a man and a woman across all cultures. The reason she could be acting that way could be because she is either testing you or she has less attraction for you due to your behavior. In any case you are at the right place, stick around for the entire article and you will be equipped to get her back guaranteed.

Its important to be clear in the dynamics between men and women. Men are supposed to display masculine properties which is assertiveness, strength, boldness, dominance and goal orientation. Women are intuitively attracted to these attributes, even if they dont admit it directly. It is subconscious. Whenever a woman have a high level of attraction for you and suddenly out of nowhere pulls back, chances are you are not displaying masculinity as needed. As such, she now does not feel certain in her place in the relationship and starts to test you as a man to see if you are masculine or not. Its a part of a womans nature to filter out the weak from the masculine.

One typical error I usually see with my clients is that they tend to act needy when their girlfriends are not showing attention. For instance, if the girl suddenly stops to respond to a text they blow up her phone. Thats a sign of neediness and again not a masculine trait which is going to let her fall back and begin to test you. Repetetive failures of displaying masculinity will ultimately fade any attraction she has for you left. So in essence, masculinity is a huge part of maintaining attraction.

It has been repeatedly been shown in multiple studies that men that have their feelings uncertain towards the girls they are interacting with causes anxiety and hence attraction from the womans side as a result. Women like mistery, women like to chase, they want to know that you are of value. If you constantly show affection and feelings to the woman this means you are displaying femenine energy and that will only push her further away. By being indifferent, you are showing her that you have value and that you will b ecompletely fine with/without her, irregardless of the actual outcome.

For instance, she stops responding to your texts? Then keep no-contact. No matter what happens, dont respond until she reaches out to you. Attraction grows in distance. And when she actually sees that you did not chase her and that you went on with your life, this will cause additional anxiety to the girl since now she knows that you have options and that your happiness is not dependent on her. This is where her attraction will grow since you are not displaying dominant masculine energy.

Relationships can be a hurdle sometime and understanding women and their behavior is really not that obvious at all times for us men. However, having over 10 years of experience in this area having helped 1000’s of men solving their relationship problems I can assure you that your problem is not any different from those I have encountered. Womens nature is the same across all cultures.

If you have a specefic problem you are facing, feel free to contact me and book your consultation right away. Contact me at: understandingrel@gmail.com

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