Dating : 25 Brutally Honest Dating Tips That Will Make You Say “Damn, You’re Right.”

To help you change your mindset, here are 25 Brutally Honest Dating Tips That Will Make You Say “Damn, You’re Right.”

Dating is like the epitome of your ego going into a Gladiator ring, with no armour, just your naked ass, putting yourself out there for an uncertain number of people to judge you, hoping it doesn’t get beaten to a bloody pulp.

With every disappointing date, every “ghost”, every “rejection”, every “catfish”, every broken heart, you toughen up a bit, get smarter, protect yourself by putting on more armour.

You can’t get hurt if you don’t show your vulnerabilities right?

But then the whole purpose of dating is to find someone to share your life with.

How can you do that if you’ve closed yourself off to the point where someone can’t see the real you?

It can seem like a catch-22.

The key is to view dating as a learning experience and not let your ego into the ring. It’s about finding what you need, want and deserve so that you become laser-focused when dating.

1. Ask yourself, is what you want and need…what you deserve?

2. You won’t find someone if you’re addicted to the attention you get from dating apps

3. Time swiping > Time on dates? = FOREVER ALONE

4. Don’t have time to date? That just means you don’t really want to date.

5. How you love yourself is the way others will love you.

6. Don’t like them? Be an adult and let them know. It frees them (and YOU) up for someone else.

7. Stop this ghosting nonsense. Ignoring people is rude and immature.

8. Want someone with a 6-pack but you keep drinking 6-packs? That ain’t what you DESERVE.

9. Be brutally honest with yourself: if you won’t date yourself, why would someone want to date you?

10. Treat yourself like shit? You’ll attract those who like to treat people like shit.