Dating : These Might Be Your Dating Life in 3 Periods

Imagine how if you are living in a conservative culture that believes marriage as an achievement and a success measurement of life, have kids is a goal, and such things you can’t even recognize.

Experience has taught me that it’s much more rewarding to be single or unmarried rather than to rush into marriage for the sake of it — to someone who’s just not right for me. It might be a good idea but not for me.

“No, you can’t get married. You have to travel all around the world, gain experiences as much as you can. And we have to fuck again.”

One of many perks to being single is you could find an exceptional Tinder date, besides Tinder is a kind of a number game, if you are lucky enough you can find a mind-blowing person who’s going to changes your life.

And I’m one of those the lucky ones. I’ve met a guy on Tinder, we’ve spent a few times together before he took a plane back to his hometown. We shared many things.

Even today when we are separated by the sea, he taught me about how if we divided our dating life into 3 periods, it’s simple but leads me to understand what is love, self-acceptance, and how to deal with rejection.

Early 20’s

This period might be an exciting yet boring phase of our dating life. You’ve met someone in high school or university, hanging around like a love birds dreaming about a beautiful love life story but nobody knows what the future holds.

What happens in the summer or when you both graduate from university? You have to decide whether you want to do long-distance or unfortunately in most cases, break up. It’s a time looping and cliché.

Mid 20’s

This is nice. You have someone with whom to hang out, discussing all over things, get a takeaway, and have sexual exploits regularly. You’re considering moving in together and you start thinking this might just be the one.

But it ended up with a break up when you realize that this person isn’t who you want to spend the rest of your lives with, but if you end it now, you still have time to enjoy being single and find someone else to settle down with.

You encourage yourself to manage better skills, pursue your dream career, and freely getting drunk with a different Tinder date every week. It’s cool, right?. You have plenty of time.

Late 20’s

Sure, you have friends who are married with babies, and maybe you don’t, but that’s no bad thing. Everyone lives their lives at their own pace, and there is no rush to settle down.

Don’t marry someone just because they’re there when you’re the age that you think you should be settling down. You have to kiss a lot of frogs to find your prince or princess, and if you don’t find them till you’re way past your twenties, it doesn’t matter.