How does a man show his attraction? 10 subtle signs!
Of course, when you date a man, you want to know if he finds you attractive and if he feels sexual attraction to you. Even though these guys aren’t always good at expressing their emotions or feelings, they never have a hard time showing you how sexy they find you. So how does a man show his attraction?
Many women ask themselves this question, yet the signs are rather obvious. If there’s one thing that men find it hard to hide, it’s their attraction to a woman. Even if they try to hide it, their expressions and gestures betray them. Once you know what to watch out for, it will be easy to spot these telltale signs.
This knowledge will do two things for you. First check if he is only sexually attracted to you or if he is really interested in a serious relationship. Then, this will help you determine if you can approach the situation with confidence or if you risk being rejected by your crush.
To help you have confidence in yourself and to allow you to approach this man you like with confidence, we have prepared a list of 10 telltale signs. Thanks to them, you will know if he is physically and sexually attracted to you. And, therefore, if an alchemy between you is possible.
1. He always stays close to you.
Whether you are walking or sitting at a bar, he goes out of his way to stay as close to you as possible. He also thinks of himself towards you when you speak. this proximity is essential for him because he seeks to create a psychological intimacy in order to put you both at ease.
It is also a way for him to check if you feel anything towards him. If, for example, you stand still or approach him as well, he knows it’s won. On the other hand, if you step back and create space between you, he becomes aware that you are not yet seduced by his advances.
2. He touches you tenderly.
During your conversation, he brushes your shoulder. Or, during your dinner, he “accidentally” touches your hand. A man shows his attraction by trying to make physical contact. He doesn’t want to appear aggressive or overly sexual, so he uses a gentler, more understated tactic to find excuses to touch you.
Just like in the first point, this way he checks that you are not uncomfortable with his gestures of affection. After all, no one likes to be touched, even gently, by someone they don’t like.
3. When he sits, he takes up a lot of space.
Unconsciously, a man shows his attraction by sitting up by spreading his legs. It takes up a lot of space and highlights its private parts. That doesn’t necessarily mean he only has sex on his mind. But, he just feels comfortable with you and that you are genuinely interested in you. That way, he still tries to show you that he has the necessary tools to keep you satisfied.
This urge to show off your stature and private parts is almost natural for men. It’s their way of showing their physical superiority over your other potential suitors. So he wants to make sure he shows you everything he has to offer (at least physically).
4. It turns all red.
When we are attracted to someone, our hearts start to race and, as a result, our blood pressure rises. The most obvious manifestation of this is the red cheeks. It’s completely organic, so you can blindly trust this sign. In this case, a man shows his attraction like a woman: he turns scarlet.
However, if you find yourself in a crowded room or in a place where it is hot, this sign may lose its relevance. therefore make sure that it is accompanied by another signal present in this list.
5. He pays attention to his appearance.
It happens to everyone. When you want to leave a good first impression, you adjust your hair, straighten your skirt or tighten your tie. These are almost instinctive gestures. Moreover, a man shows his attraction by taking care of his general appearance for a romantic date. He will make sure to take a shower, to shave and to dress in a classier way than usual.
Just like women, men want to look their best. But, a lot of guys don’t make the effort to particularly prepare for a romantic one-on-one. So if your suitor is showing ostentatious signs of self-care it is because he is attracted to you and wants you to notice his beauty.
6. He maintains eye contact.
A man who thinks you are sexy is going to look at you a lot. By nature, humans try to make (direct) eye contact to get the other’s attention and to show interest. A man’s attraction to you can therefore be measured by the intensity of his gaze and the frequency (and duration) of eye contact.
In addition, if during your conversation, he stares at you from eye to mouth, it’s in his pocket! Because direct eye contact makes many people uncomfortable, some choose to try to control their gaze. But, because their attraction to you is strong, their eyes do not leave your face.
7. He pays close attention to other men.
This sign can be more subtle and difficult to spot. But, men are territorial so when they like a woman, they observe everything that happens around her. So if they see other men trying to approach you, they’ll get on the defensive. They scan the room and are not shy to obstruct anyone who might want to interrupt your conversation.
Competition can scare some men off. And sometimes that can lead to some pretty funny situations. A man shows his attraction by trying to outperform his peers. If you are, for example, at a party where there is a contest to determine who has the biggest biceps, you can make sure that your suitor is going to attend to try to impress you.
8. He flirts outrageously.
What more do you need? A man who flirts with you without gene is someone who finds you interesting. A man shows his attraction by flirting in any way he can. So he gives you compliments, touches your shoulder lightly, and pulls your hair back into place.
Dating or flirting are more than revealing signs. But, you have to watch his way of seducing you. If he’s too aggressive or impatient, it’s because he only wants sex. On the other hand, if he shows tenderness, humor and patience, he tries to get to know you better and create a real emotional bond.
9. He smiles a lot.
A man’s attraction to you can be noticed in a casual conversation. If he can’t help but smile when he looks at you, he’s absolutely addicted. He uses this technique to attract the woman he likes in his nets. He uses his charm to put you at ease and send you a clear signal: he appreciates you.
We can also smile when we are in a stressful situation or when we are nervous. However, this man seems comfortable and he tells his best jokes. Clearly, his smile is linked to the attraction he feels for you. It is also a way for him to check if you are going to return the favor or if you are going to remain stoic as if the situation you find yourself in bores you.
10. Your conversations are much longer than they should be.
A man shows his attraction when he tries to do everything to spend as much time with you as possible. So when he tries to extend your discussion by asking you lots of questions or answering in detail, he is interested in you.
Sometimes he can also go from rooster to donkey without taking the time to breathe. He’s afraid of leaving blanks in your chat because he doesn’t want you to get bored or go off to talk to someone else. You must therefore reassure him of your interest in him by joyfully participating in his speech.
In some cases, it can be very difficult to spot the signs that will tell you if the man you want is attracted to you. Generally speaking, men are not open when it comes to talking about their feelings or their emotions. Still, there are plenty of ways for them to let you know how they are feeling.
The above list of signs is not complete. There are many more ways for a man to show his attraction. But, the selection presented in this article brings together the first and most frequent signs of attraction of a man to you.
So, a man shows his attraction, for example, by staring straight in the eye. Besides, sometimes you may feel like he can’t look away from your face. He may be restless and have trouble staying still. He can also give you gifts and shower you with compliments.
Everything he does is aimed at making you understand that he is attracted to you. He also wants to see if you will respond positively to his subliminal signals. He may be shy or he may have a lack of self-confidence that prevents him from directly telling you how he is feeling.
So it’s up to you to know how to spot the telltale signs and how to interpret them!
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