How to know if a man wants to have sex
How to know if a man wants to have sex
Physical intimacy is important in a couple relationship. It’s a different way of communicating your appreciation and feelings to each other while sharing a real moment of connection. Touch is a language of love in its own right that we use through kisses, caresses, but of course also when we make love. Also, when we make love, this moment of expression and osmosis has a direct impact on our happiness hormones (oxytocin, endorphin, serotonin, dopamine… better than a drug). It therefore really gives us a feeling of shared well-being (when everything is going well in bed). Now, initiating this moment is not always easy and you may need some clues to detect when your partner is in the mood for sex. In this article I give you some ideas 😉
1. His eyes focus on your whole body
A lot of things are communicated by the gaze of a man, in fact you can even imagine that the gaze is as concrete as a hand and watch what it is stroking. Normally, when we talk with a person, we focus on their eyes and their face. A man who wants to make love to you will not be satisfied with that. He will detail the parts of your body that attract him the most. His attention will be on your chest, neck, hands etc. And you will see him do it!
2. He flirts more
Because your man wants to make love, he is more inclined to flirt with you verbally, that is to say to make the conversation a little more erotic. In the early stages of a relationship, you flirt a lot, and that doesn’t mean you’re ready to jump on each other all the time! But when he wants you, the direction taken by his flirtatious will point to his attention. To give you an example, if you tell him you’re going to take a shower, he’ll joke that he’s joining you right away. Likewise when you go to bed. Overall, he will flirt with you in a more oriented way.
3. It emphasizes what you wear
As mentioned earlier, a man who feels like having sex will look at you insistently. His gaze will be drawn to your body. Also, although this point, isolated from others is not sufficient on its own, a man who feels like having sex will find you particularly attractive. To express it, he might tell you that this outfit looks good on you, shows off you, asks if these jeans are new, if you did something to your hair etc.
4. His face expresses it
The look is not the only thing that changes in a man who wants to have sex with you. Other parts of her face are also stressed, starting with her mouth. You will see him lick his lips, bite them or even mimic what you do with yours! Not only does his breathing change when he doesn’t realize it, making his mouth drier, but he also craves you, which stimulates him to « lick his chops » but in addition, if he does. The urge is strong, it is possible that his nostrils dilate and you catch him smelling you!
5. His touch changes
Whether your man is tactile or not, if he wants to have sex with you, his body language will be different. A man who wants to have sex with you wants you. And, of course, we like to touch what we desire. Then you will see him approaching, initiating contact, kissing you on the neck, caressing you for a longer time and being slower in his movements. It will try to be in contact with your skin. You might even see him get carried away a bit before you are even at the same level of desire as him!
6. His voice changes
Beyond flirting with you, you will feel less focused on what you are telling yourself. It will seem to you somewhere else, like a little distracted or awkward. Also, his voice will be softer, smoother and deeper. It is undeniable that a man takes a warmer, lower voice when making love to you, not at all the same voice as when ordering pizza. When he goes to flirt with you he will obviously tend towards the Barry White that is in him.
7. He fidgets
A man who feels like having sex with you but isn’t quite comfortable with it might seem a little restless to you. He will change places and will be dispersed. When a man wants to make love, he has energy to spend, so anything will be an excuse to do so. He will take the opportunity to get up, pick up, move or put away something. His hands will betray him, especially if you see him fiddling with or playing with something!
8. He organizes moments inside
A man who wants to make love to you will also want to create the space for that moment to take place. Rather than scheduling outside dates, he’ll set up a date at home, where you can be alone and free to do whatever you want out of sight. So he will have time to have you for him and create the right atmosphere for this moment!
9. It’s obvious!
Sometimes, without having to scrutinize his behavior, the fact that your man wants you is just obvious! Whether it is because he tells you so clearly or because he deliberately makes sure to pass the message on to you, for example by initiating by sending a sext.
10. How about trying to initiate the moment?
Sometimes you’re going to be the first to want him for no reason. If so, rekindle the Courtesan in you! The Courtesan is that part of your femininity which communicates its desire to a man. On the Club, our platform dedicated to personal and romantic development, you will find advice to renew the passion in your relationship and wake up the devil who is in him by different attitudes as subtle as they are effective. You will also learn what are the 4 archetypes of femininity and how to re-appropriate them.
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