POF : A male and female debate from last night using POF or online dating and when to go direct communications.
Yes, it is a struggle for males to get one message, that subject gets mentioned daily and the mobile app is buggy, we all got that.
For those that do get the messaging started, who should be the one to say, « hey, let’s get off here, here is my cell number. »
When I took the step, I’ve gotten total silence afterward. So, I feel the women should when she is comfortable giving her cell phone out.
Some women have stated the man should take control and should ask for it.