POF : Not as many messages on pof as I’m getting older?
I used to have a plenty of fish years ago when I was 21 and I used to get loads of messages on it all the time. I was working back then. I am now 27 and not working at the moment. I decided to make a pof again and I have hardly been getting any messages. My looks have hardly changed much from when I was 21. I don’t know if it is maybe because I am unemployed now that the women on it seem to be less interested? Or if it is generally just more difficult to meet women as you get older? Another issue I find with pof is a lot of the guys on it are on the hunt and the women on it generally get much more messages than the guys. But like I say there is a big difference in how many messages I got on pof when I was 21 compared to now when I’m 27, and like I say my looks haven’t really changed, and I am still about the same weight. So I don’t know if it maybe is the not working or if women just seem to be more difficult to meet as they get older.
By. Skaterdreww
I once came across a profile of a 22 year old with three kids who was expecting « Thor » to message her. Yo know, tall handsome and muscular guy with heavy cash flow. Women of our generation are just out of their minds.
I feel the same way , most women now at least have one child or more and have unrealistic expectations .
Some of them do but not all
I don’t state my job and leave it blank , also most women leave me on read . Or read deleted or unread deleted .
Like dang I’m not that the worst guy , I am a good guy in my personal opinion .
It’s tough out there online .
I am 36 and the same thing is happening to me. I started out on POF in 2009 and had the best luck on there. Was with a guy for 2yrs before we ended it due to distance. I also had a short term off there. POF is not what it was anymore
A little bit of column A (unemployed) and a little bit of column B (dating pools shrink as you age).
It’s the way the filtering process works on dating sites… most girls in their early 20’s probably are searching for people ages 20 – 25. I’m a year older than you and I’ve noticed what you’re noticing as well. It’s definitely a shitty situation.