Dating : I already agreed to go on a date with you. Why are you being pushy?
Twice this week I matched with a guy that I thought was really nice and we seemed to have things in common. They asked me out and I said yes. One was a phone call for today and one is an in person date after I get my second vaccine shot in a few weeks. Both pushed to call or meet earlier. The phone call guy couldn’t make up his mind whether he is busy today or not so I suggested we reschedule for a different day if he is busy. Then while I am asleep he decides he is no longer busy and wants to call. I told him this is not the agreed upon time and I would call him in 3 hours. In those 3 hours he became so pushy insisting he call now. When the agreed upon time came, he couldn’t seem to hold a conversation and when I was mid-sentence he hung up and didn’t tell me why until I messaged him and asked him. The in person guy knows I am high risk and I offered a video date if he can’t wait, but he said no. And he keeps asking to meet in person every day. I’m honestly thinking of calling it off.
Call it off dude just doesn’t sound okay.
If someone doesn’t respect your boundaries even once, stop talking to them.
If you say ‘no’ to someone and they don’t respect it, cut that person off, without an explanation.
Call it off, if they cant respect your boundaries now then id hate what to think theyd be like in the future
Or straight out ask him why he’s been so pushy and it’s creeping you out . Because maybe he is bad a texting or just online dating in general. At least that way you will know if he’s dodgy or just bad at texting/online dating and he will know he is coming on too strong. But from what I’ve read I would not me him . ( I’m 38m)