Dating : I’M DONE!!
I match with this annoying girl, and we take things off from Instagram, we start playing games with each other like replying late and stuff like that. Her replying pattern is so weird like she’s going to reply after 2 days and then suddenly will reply in the next 1-2 hours (Super weird and annoying)
We started the conversation with music and then so forth, I asked about her music taste again trying to know which other artists she likes so we can move forward from there, and she left me on seen. she looks at all my stories at the very end when my posted story starts to disappear. like if you really want to talk and are interested why playing all these games with my feelings? its so frustrating and annoying that I KNOW she likes me equally and is willing to at least go on a date.
Why create so much drama when you weren’t interested in the first place? why are you even replying when you aren’t even interested.
thats all i wanted to say in my rant Thanks.
Maybe I missed the part where the drama was? It sounds like she has a life and replies when convenient, as she should.???????
Bruh ask her out on a date. No girl wants to be pen pals. Messaging back and forth is a waste of time after a while
Haha I’m so guilty of this. But its because I have so many commitments and I also have ADHD. So I don’t even look at my phone until it’s both convenient and I have the energy.
I like to make sure that I reply at a time when I have time to actually enjoy reading the message and properly think about what I’m saying.
I always let people I’m interested in to not take it as a bad thing and that I will always reply at least within a day or two if I still like you.
Everyone is different though. It’s still so early so just stop overthinking, stop playing games and reply per your normal and just see where things go
Stop overthinking!!! Take it easy
I stopped having empathy for OP when he described « starting playing games ». Stay honnest, if you are interested in someone, why voluntarily delay more and more the messages… except if you wanna induce « im not interested ».
Its like IRL dude. If you are in couple with someone and delay the more and more your dates/activities, the « are you busy » question will come, and if you weren’t and actually made the delay in purpose it will trigger « he is not attracted or interested enough » mindset.
Think about that and maybe that’s why she also started to be distant in your textings.
When normal people are busy and delaying, they usually say it when they finally text back for the other not to feel unconfortable. If you or they don’t it’s just toxic mindgames to play with the other head and feelings.
Women and men’s online dating experience are totally different things Google it there are some funny videos about it . Women get hundreds of texts from guys/pics from the moment they upload there photos thats crazy too me (38) . I could be texting 100 women and get 1 reply and then have to put alot of work in to keep 1 interested. I put myself through it every 4 months or so and it’s never worked for me , although I do suck . But don’t give up man because being lonely sucks big time and that I do know for sure .