Dating : I was “dumped” the day before my birthday
I met this guy on tinder. We went out on a couple dates and really hit it off. But he lived in another state but he told me it wouldn’t be an issue because he travels for work and spends one week a month in my city. I am a very skeptical person so I told him let’s be casual and see what happens.
For weeks he constantly told me how much he liked me, and asked me to be his girlfriend THREE times. I only said no because I needed to take things slow. We constantly texted and FaceTimed. He brought up moving to my city to make it work.
He decided he wanted to come to my city for my birthday and take me out to a fancy dinner. The day he got here we had so much fun and that night we hooked up and went to sleep. Today, the very next morning he was cold to me. I asked him outright if he wasn’t interested anymore and he said he wasn’t. So I cancelled the rest of our plans and left. What the actual fuck?? Tomorrow is my birthday, but I’m glad I know now.
I’m so glad we didn’t have sex. I don’t understand men like him.
I think men like that just want the chase of hooking up with you. I’m sorry that happened 🙁
You’re better off without him, he was going too fast for you. Either you were just incompatible or he had a wife back home waiting for him.
Maybe his other personality kicked in.
So then what does hooking up mean if you’re saying you didn’t have sex?