Dating : Do you need a reason to break up with someone?
Do you need a reason? If not, A good reason to break up with someone?
Honestly, I don’t think you need a reason or a good reason to break up with someone. You could break up with someone simply because you don’t want to be in a relationship with them. You don’t need a good reason for it, You just need a reason and move on…🤷🏾♀️That’s my opinion.
So I don’t understand why people rant about their partner’s reason for dumping them.
Sometimes the spark is just gone. One girl told me “i don’t hear guitars anymore” whatever that means.
Yeah I think that’s fair. Sometimes you’ll lose your feelings for someone, not necessarily because of something they’ve done, but it happens. I think that’s ok.
Of course not. No you don’t need a reason.
In my experience, people the most offended by the very idea of someone “breaking up without a specific reason” are not coming from a place of heartbreak (tho they have been heartbroken – we ALL have!), I see it as coming from a place of control, lack of introspection, and not enough experience to truly understand yet, if they ever do, as some people never do.
Honestly yes, I’m seeing this guy right now and something just doesn’t feel right. He didn’t do anything wrong, but after a few dates, we just didn’t hit it off so. Because everything was going so well, I’m worried that once I break it off with him, he’s gonna think he’s being blindsided. Sometimes it is what it is. I just can’t be with him.
Not that I much experience in the matter, but to some degree I agree. But on the other hand, instead of « ranting » or whatever. I’d just look for more explanation.
But this is coming from a POV of someone who’s never really been a relationship like that. So probably just ignorance.