Dating : Do you ask him or her to stay the night?
Let’s say you are getting to know a new guy or girl. You are not dating. You are not bf/gf but two people who enjoy one another company and going with the flow.
For example women in 30s and guy upper 20s. Well we been hanging about 5 times. Well eventually I was invited to his place after we were finishing up at another place.I did not think too much of it as everything been PG.
Anyways we know what happened lol it was okay for both parties we clean up and such it was getting late but not too bad. So he just said you are welcome to stay over. I was like no I will go home. So was he just being nice or did he want me to stay over 🤷♀️
>You are not dating you
You are not dating you? Well, let me know how that’s working out.
Instead of asking us, who have zero context other than what you provided, you should just do what you feel comfortable with and if he wants more, he can be more direct. It’s not your responsibility or his to read each other’s minds. Direct communication, imo, is the best way to figure out what kind of person you’re getting to know. Stressing over his motives isn’t worth your time. Talking it out though (insert Drake meme here), that could be quality time spent getting to know someone’s inner thought process.
I only offer if I want her to stay. If she asks I’ll usually allow it either way.
If it’s your fate, why not