Dating : Should I (22M) pursue my manager (20F)
Ok so..I developed this crush on this manager I work with at a job I’ve been working at for 3 months. she’s cute & has a strong work ethic. I’m not sure whether she likes me romantically she’s pretty strict & stern and will always yell out my name the most to make sure I’m doing the right thing in nights where we close.
But she has started casual conversations with me before like asking me what I done for Father’s Day & giving me little details about where she lived even though I never asked where she lived. Idk I just feel like we clique whenever we start casual conversation. Another thing is that she will always stare at my body idk if she’s looking at my crouch or clothing but that’s what I observed.
Idk even when she bosses me around it never feels like it’s to belittle me or anything like that I actually find it kinda hot lol.
I was going to ask her if she wanted to be in one of my videos because I’m pursuing a career in streaming/content creation I also told her I do comics & boxing she seemed interested in that.
Well guy’s what do you think? Yay or Nay?
This is a terrible idea and you should go for it
No. 1. Don’t shit where you eat. 2. Massive power imbalance. Just….. no. Bad, bad, bad idea.
First of all, it’s never appropriate from someone in a position of power to flirt with someone they have power over. You are a victim.
Second of all. DO IT. It’s totally hot, and you should incorporate some boss/employee role play in the bedroom.
She’s your boss. Absolutely under no circumstances should you pursue this as long as you work there. If you quit (and I would not quit over this,) then give her your number or ask her out on your last day.