Dating : He’s Fucked Up
I dated this guy for a year, but for almost 3 years we were in an on and off relationship, but usually it only last for 3 months to the point that I decided to let him go 2 years ago.
But recently, on a high school reunion, we were reconnected and I felt that the love was still there. We hang out and had a constant communication until he ghosted me. Only to find out that he’s been confused and his reason was that his mother had left him when he was young, that he can’t handle any relationship due to trust issues.
I want him but his mind is fucked up that he can’t make any commitment. This time, I am letting him go.
Then he needs therapy and a stong woman to stand by him.
It is a waste of time to wait for someone who doesn’t know what they want. It isn’t your duty to convince or save them.
That is why I am no longer holding on. It is painful though, I hope it’ll be worth it