Dating : I don’t know what to do
He likes me but I don’t really feel the same.
I feel as if he’s not really into « me ». More like he’s into being in a relationship. I thought I wanted to be with him but for some reason it feels wrong. I try to like being with him but I feel sick. We’re really good friends and I like being friends but I don’t understand why it feels wrong.
If it doesn’t feel right, it doesn’t feel right. I wouldn’t try to force yourself to feel something you don’t- that’s not fair to him or you.
I was in the same situation a couple years ago. I didn’t want to end things but there was so much pressure to be someone I wasn’t. It steadily got to the point where I didn’t want to read my notifications on my phone.
Letting him go was the best thing I could have done. Yeah it sucked breaking up at first, but it was better than living a lie. The relief was worth it, and he’s in a great relationship now.
I wish you luck, whatever you decide to do.
Oh man I just went through this with the last girl I dated about a month ago. I pursued her for a couple months and we hooked up a couple times. Then after an amazing vacation together we started dating and she ended it after a couple weeks citing that she didn’t want a relationship and that I was more invested in it than she was. It hurt but I understood she just wasn’t that into me and so I didn’t bother pleading or begging.
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Just tell him how you feel. It’s going to suck either way but at least be upfront and honest with him. Much better than trying to force yourself to like him and you won’t be leading him on either.