Dating : I don’t think I have any feelings left after dating for 10 years…
29/F here. I had my first wonderful lovely noble boyfriend at 20, lasted for a year. We parted amicably. Since then, I’ve briefly dated a plethora of men who one after the other were just not interested in having a relationship with me. The worst part is they did romantic things, introduced me to their friends, talked about the future etc. but they always stuck me in a weird situationship. I haven’t dated in half a year and honestly I think I am just over it. I just don’t think I have any more energy or feelings left for men. I don’t have the energy to get excited about a date, there’s just no point imo, men only want me for my physicality not a deeper connection. I can genuinely say that I am more at peace alone, than I ever have been dating. I’m definitely done online dating, it’s all disposable, even as an attractive woman. If someone decides to dig through to my heart IRL, I’ll allow them but other than that I am not bending over backwards for anybody again.
when you go after attractive dudes with options they don’t commit
Feeling the same about dating, it’s like a second full time job yet largely been disappointing. I’m also at peace being single now, but I still have hope that one day I will meet someone right for me. I am a firm believer that there is someone right for everyone. You didn’t ask for advice, but I assume that if you are happy being single, then you don’t need one. But if you are even a little bit hopeful, remember that good things come for those who wait ❤️
i wish i didnt have feelings
bro honestly just do ur thing maybe u will meet s guy who shocks you maybe you wont it doesnt matter as long as ur happy