Dating : Dating with odd hobbies
I (35m) very recently became single after a 10 year relationship, and I’m freaked out that my aquariums and underground metal record collection, which is all in my living room, will freak out most normal women. Will it? How do « new » women respond to this? I can’t really remember what it’s like to try to seem cool.
Wouldn’t you want to attract women that you actually get along with and share interests with? Speaking as a lady bodied person, if some guy came over and was “weirded out” by my excessive amount of side instruments, indoor garden and 90’s alt comics I’d politely shrug my shoulders and let it go. If my hobbies are alarming, they can go elsewhere lol
There isn’t a default “right” or “cool” way to be- pretending to be average will attract the same.
Is it like a hoarder collection, or a normal collection?