Dating : Is she a slut or not? AKA should I keep her
Hi Y’all
I met a girl on tinder sometime ago and our first two dates where amazing we’ve talked for several hours and it never gets boring. We’re also both from the same country in Western Europe and now live in the US. Since I’ve been living in America I’ve been specifically looking to date girls from the same culture (not necessarily same race). The main reason for this is because most of the girls in my university like to have lots of casual sex which is great but not something I’m looking for in a potential spouse and also not something I practice myself. This has been kind of more challenging than I thought because the university I go to is not frequented by many Euro international students. Anyhow, I finally find this girl who matches many of the criteria that I would look for in a long-term partner and I’m head-over heels for her which is great, however, when we had sex I quickly find out that she’s very loose both vaginally and anally. Quick Disclaimer: I’m not a puritan and expected her to have had sex a few times in her life since we’re both in our early twenties ad neither of us is a virgin but I did not expect this-> I could easily slip my penis inside of her which usually isn’t as easy with girls my age since I’m slightly over 8 inches and pretty girthy. I also easily slipped half of my hand in her
(3 fingers) after only 2 minutes of anal foreplay and zero lube or spit even. Her asshole just stretched and it felt like I could very likely put my whole hand in there. So what do you guys think??? should I dump her?or should I keep her and progress in the relationship?
what the fuck lmao
dude….that’s…this…
Okay.
1.
It doesn’t work like that. the vagina is a muscle that expands and contracts and it doesn’t just get permanently looser from a lot of sex. Every vagina is different.
2.
who cares about her past if she wants to be in a committed, monogamous relationship with you now? I’ve had casual sex multiple times and would do it again, as I’m single right now. But I am also open to getting into a committed and monogamous relationship with someone. The two aren’t mutually exclusive.
You should probably educate yourself on female anatomy before speaking so recklessly.
Also, you should try and reserve judgement on the past lives of others. I’m not saying you have to agree with her decisions to have casual sex (if she even has, because you absolutely cannot conclude that she has based on the “evidence” you’ve provided). You don’t even have to date her if it bothers you THAT much. But relationships are built on trust and intimacy, so you have to listen to her if she says that you are what she wants now.
(I’m going to put it out there that I am trying to be level-headed and rational despite the fact that this post irritated the hell out of me. PLEASE educate yourself. And also, let’s not call women sluts, alright?)
Lmao wtf