Dating : I need help with my high sex drive urgently
Hi everyone,
I’m very sad, frustrated and depressed about my sexual situation.
I usually think that i have a very high sexual drive, like sex would be in my head every day. There wouldnt be a day i go without thinking about sex.
My most worrying problem is that since i came from a traditional background that sees anything sexual a taboo, this sexual desire built up and i wasnt able to express it so i started masturbating a lot. I would usually masturbate 2 or 3 times a day. At times it would reach 4,5 or even 6.
This was a massive problem for me as it would distract me from pretty much anything beneficial as i would only think about masturbating. It reached a point where my mind would visualize sexual scenarios after every interaction i had with a woman. It be a friend, a mom’s friend or even a teacher, it wouldn’t matter. Anything and everything to do with women my brain would turn into some sexual fantasy where i would fantacize about all the things i would be doing with that woman.
Here is my most worrying part. Because of my high sexual drives and the fact that i had not been able to express them or even discover what they are about (Im a virgin), this sort of made me explode, i would literally go on messenger and message every girl i knew and try to get intimate with every girl in the hope of getting sex.
It reached the point where i would go up to random women in the mall or in shops and try to know them in the hopes of kissing them or hooking up. I would usually try to stop this habit but it would reach a point where i would just go on a rampage messaging 10 girls and approaching random women hoping for something to happen.
Most of the times nothing would come out of it so i get really depressed and sad about not getting any women and not being attractive enough to sleep with one.
I also get jealous of other men who are able to get women in abundance and start blaming it on the women for going after them, but this isn’t as big as the problem i stated in the previous paragraph.
I am begging everyone in this community, because i know what im doing is wrong, to give me any help or advice there to sort out my problem. Please i have been in this rut for a long long time and it is getting unbearable. Any advice or book or help center would be greatly appreciated.
I suffered with this for too long and i dont want to be looking like a freak talking to random girls and trying to hook up with every female i see. Im beggin you guys to give me as much help as you can.
