Dating : Asked for my barbers number
I usually get my haircut at this shop down the street from my house. I’ve been going there for months since December at least. I’ve always went to this girl who is a bit » out there » she’s slim,cute has her hair colored green or bright colors in a tasteful way. Not usually my type. We’ve talked a lot each time I went in, flirted with her etc. I think she conveyed she had a BF prior. She also has kids apparently from before.
Moving forward after flirting and teasing her, I asked for her number which she gave me.
I’ve asked her out a few times for drinks, usually she agrees then » disappears » or flakes out. Randomly after days or a week of radio silence she randomly texted me out the blue. » Hey you, how’s it going? » I responded with the usual » working, going on Hikes etc ». She told me she’s on vacation visiting her kids and ex-husband lol. I was like okayyyyy..
She suggested getting together for a drink when she gets back in town. I hit her up when she gets back and she only replys with » Hey ». Haha. Can’t make this stuff up. Another week goes by and now she is asking me to go out on a » nature adevuntue » for two days.. I’m confused af..
I havent responded. Help me understand what’s going on here. Lol. Attention seeker? Flake or all of the above?
She’s not interested in anything but the occasional ego boost she gets from the attention you give her.
She hasn’t really been acting like she’s seriously interested in you.
Her actions, her words. She isn’t into you. You are not a priority. You are a maybe. Stop investing. And don’t go to do your hair there again either.