Dating : How should I engage with this girl?
I met her through a college group but hardly ever talked one on one. During a few socials, I was able to make her laugh with facial expressions but it all ended at that.
During June, I decided to message her through facebook to get the ball rolling. I stated that I needed more friends in college and she was looking for the same thing as well. Although secretly I was interested.
Our messaging has evolved from text messages to sending videos and chatting face to face using snapchat late at night. Her younger brothers and close friend are starting to see and recognize she sends messages constantly to me. We send a good morning texts and talk about what’s going on everyday.
Recently, i gave her compliments about her glasses (because I wear glasses as well) and her natural hair because its curly like mine. Ever since then she has been wearing them both. She has also been talking to me about guys she doesnt find interest in and how they fall short.
I am coming to yall for some guidance. Obviously she is interested, but should I push to be more than friends? What are some signs that she wants me to stay or pursue?
(Sorry for the big story lol)
Yeah man, it sounds like you’re either in with this girl or you’ve met a really good friend. I would pop the question one day when you are both in high spirits. The important thing (and something I’ve had issues with in the past) is that you should try to remain friends with her even if she doesn’t want anything romantic. You never know what might happen in the future!! With her, or one of her friends!
The hair and glassses thing tells me theres a really good chance this girl is into you. Do you see this girl in person? My advice would be to look for opportunities to subtly escalate during your in person interactions with her before you flat out tell her how you feel. Think playful flirting/touching. How she responds (provided you do it smoothly/not in a way that makes her uncomfortable) will tell you everything you need to know.