Dating : I(19m) have a crush on my friends sister (27f)
(This is a jumble of stuff but I need a place to get this out) So when I was looking for a job my and my friend stopped at this resturaunt that his sister works at because they were hiring. Long story short this girl hooks me up with the job and in a week we start working together. I get along with her very very well, I love to make this girl laugh while we work it feels like a big leap from the level I was on only a month ago when it comes to talking to girls. She makes the scedules and would say things in this flirty tone like « I made your hours close to mine » when I was at my friends house ( I work every hour she works btw). She will text me sometimes when we are having a breif convo about work and then after that convo is over will text me « are you free right now ». About 3 times a work day she will ask to get a drink with me afterwards and then go home with this giggle that follows afterwards. She will rub my triceps or give my hip a poke all the time. I have not done anything sexual with her, all i do is just keep trying to make her laugh, I go out of my way to do it sometimes. She will point out my height and compliment me on my skin or somthing on more than one occasion a work day. She will drive me home too.
Its cause she is older than me I think its a crazy situation. I like this girl alot, she is probally just trying to fuck me or somthing I dont really know whats happening here exactly. She is so cute and absolute in this way that is just so fun and welcoming I have never opened up to a girl this successfully and I love it so much. I havent caught feelings although it may sound like it I have not.
In conclusion,this is the first girl I have imediently found attractive and connected with without any akward tension. Im starting college soon! So there can possibly be some more girls that I get along in the way the way me and her do that are not my friends sister.
She’s probably a little attracted to you, but I don’t think it’s anything more than that. Women get away with being flirty in ways that men never will. Think about if I guy was doing that to a girl, it would actually be pretty creepy. But for women that can actually be a safe way to interact with someone that they like, but can’t for whatever reason be involved with.
I’m sure she doesn’t mean to lead you on, but if you’re that interested it never hurts to ask how she feels about you. If she’s not comfortable with you she probably won’t mind having a conversation about it.
This isn’t abnormal, and it’s very possible she’s attracted to you as well, especially given her touching you and laughing.
But make sure to talk to your friend first.