Dating : First date, need some help
I’m 23M, I’ve never been in a relationship nor been on a date, because, simply I’m too shy and lack confidence when it comes to talking with girls. I have Tinder account for few months now because I want to change this forever alone life.
I got paired with a girl, and she seems to be willing to go out with me. The problem is – I don’t know anything about dates. I have no idea where I should take her, what to talk about, how to behave – I don’t even know how should I greet her (hug, handshake?) and all that drives me crazy and makes me super stressed. Could somebody give me some advice?
Take her for a drink or a couple drinks at a bar. Choose a bar in a neighborhood that has another bar/ice cream shop/arcade etc within walking distance. That way you can suggest a change of venue and keep the date going longer.
Simply ask her questions about her life and try not to dominate the convo with your own stories. Give her a hug and kiss on the cheek when you first meet her….no handshake.
Handshake is fine, wouldn’t hug someone I met online unless it just happens (sometimes it does). Give a compliment on her looks.
You can take her to a coffee place and then take a walk. Maybe think about a few interesting things and stories you can talk about, but not too much.
Remember, she’s probably at least a little bit stressed out too. Yes, she has a vagina (I hope), but she’s still a human being just like you.
Just focus on getting to know person, seeing if you fit together and on the whole thing as an experience.
You’ll be fine 🙂