Dating : After 2nd date asked her if she wanted to meet up sometime next week. should I text?
Met up for the 2nd time in person and had a good time spending it in the sun.
She had to leave for another event so I walked her back to her car and I said something along the line which I don’t remember exactly, « It was fun, was wondering if you wanted to meet up sometime next week? »
She answered with something and we went our separate ways.
Should I text her, « It was nice seeing you again and was fun. Was wondering if you would like to meet up again sometime next week? »
Or should I just wait and see if she does reach out to me?
I am thinking to just go with the latter so I don’t come on as clingy.
Also she did tell me prior she is doing some fruit picking today, I guess I shouldn’t message her later in the day to see how fruit picking went for her? And if she wants to tell me about her day, she will reach out and this could typically mean that she may be interested in me and wants to tell me more about her day.
Don’t want to come on as nosy and clingy.
This whole post is overridden with anxiety. Just relax a bit. What did she say when you asked to meet up. All you said was “she answered with something and we went our separate ways”. She replied with what? If she said yes, then ask her when she’s free and make a plan.
if you initiated the first 2 meetings, then its only fair she try to initiate another unless shes that old school type where she expects the guy to chase/ initiate initially. wait and see.
I usually like getting a message saying they enjoyed the date
But I wouldn’t straight away tell them to meet again next week, wait a few days for that
Call her and say you want to take her on a date again. Take initiative, you want to see her again right?
I’ve always had most success in life when I took initiative. If you have to drag her to the date then you’ll notice it when she’s not interested. Trust me.