Dating : Asking out cute cashier?
So theres this really cute girl who works at the bakery across the street from me. A few months ago, we had a quick innocent interaction and I just walked away thinking she was cute. Last weekend, I go into again to buy a coffee. I recognize her by her really white teeth and big smile. As I order my coffee she makes playful comments about my order. After she brings my coffee, she asks my name and we chat for maybe two mins before I realize I’m holding up the line. Sunday I went to the baseball game with a friend, and stopped by in the morning to get us breakfast pastries. I notice shes working that day, but had her back turned.
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I went in today and she remembers my name clearly, and also asks if i came in the other day wearing a baseball jersey. She indeed did notice me, and shared that she also liked baseball and it was nice to see others who do.
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So, I TOTALLY want to ask this girl out. My issue lies in that I would pretty much have to do it while shes working, and there is obviously the conundrum of whether she actually likes me or she’s being hospitable. I feel pretty odd about asking her out while shes at work. I do love my coffee, so i figured the best course of action was to just pop in a few times a week and continue to chat with her and feel it out as I go. Still, I guess I’d appreciate some insight?
You should have asked her if she’d wanna see a baseball game when she brought up that she enjoyed it. It would have been a good moment since she brought it up and it would have been a real easy and casual transition into setting up the date. There’s no harm in asking her to a baseball game now but you passed a good opportunity.
Are you in the U.S.? Baseball is like one of the most popular sports in the country in the U.S. so the fact that she brought it up like it was some niche hobby says to me she was just looking for common ground to discuss because she’s interested. Ask her out. Worse case scenario she says no and you gotta find another place to get some pastries until the embarrassment wears off.
You’ll never know until you ask man. Since you don’t really know her, you have no choice but to ask her while she’s working. Just make sure you keep it really casual, no pressure, no nothing. Make it fun
Watch how she interacts with other costumers. Specifically guys about your age. If she seems to treat you special than maybe you should ask her out. Hell even ask if she wants to have a coffee right there on her lunch break. It would be relaxed and easy. The worst she says is no thank you and then you just stop going there. Good luck dude!