Dating : Dating with a disability.
Hi so I’m a 19F and I honestly need advice. I have caudal regression syndrome. My legs are deformed. I kinda look like I’m cut in half when I’m in my wheelchair. But my legs are small and bent permanently. Kinda like frog legs. I honestly want to start dating but its hard for me.
Not because of dependency. I’m quite independent. But the problem I always had was people looking at my disformity and not me. It makes me feel a bit insecure about my body. Its hard to feel sexy when my body is deformed. I want to date but like many who are disabled its hard to do it.
I’m a really down to earth girl that doesn’t get offended easily (my friends were wary about making disabled joke but I just said fuck it and laughed with them) I make people laugh and from what past people said, once you get to know me I’m a blast. I’m bi as well so it doesn’t matter the gender. my womenly bits work just fine. So intimacy like that is not a problem.
I don’t know how to exactly get into the game. I’m lonely and my disability turns off people. Should I use a dating site? And if so what is a good website?
It can take awhile but I think you can find someone. It’s tough but if you’re straight forward on the apps you’ll be ok
Someone for everyone…be yourself…and just communicate with guys..imo a girl being herself is hot af
Yes use dating sites and be honest about it, think from the other person perspective. Use tinder,badoo, whatever.
Thanks for the advice. I would never hide that I have a physical disability. That’s just a set up for failure. But I’ll give it a shot.
Honestly I’d (21 M) date a girl who was disabled. Its really not that big of a deal when you get into the dating scene as an adult. Im more focused on who you are as a person and whether I could see myself spending the rest of my life with someone.
Are you otherwise fit and cute?
After weeding out the peoe who have a fetish for cripples you are probably stick with pedophiles and deviants that normal people avoid like the plague.
Use dating site and specify you are in a chair. Don’t leg fish someone. It won’t end well for you.