Dating : Girl i’ve been seeing updated profile. Losing interest?
I’ve (24M) been seeing this girl (24F) for about a month and a half now about once a week. We’ve slept together and seem to both be into each other, but still have yet to define the relationship to be exclusive. We text almost everyday and the conversation seems to flow naturally and doesnt feel forced. From what i’ve gauged it seems like shes looking for something long term and not just a casual hook-up buddy.
The other day I noticed she updated her dating profile with a new bio and pictures. I know this means that I obviously have been on the app myself, but I have been casually checking the app when im bored without being super invested in it. I have yet to meet up or even really chat anyone new since meeting this girl and havent updated my profile since I thought things with this girl were going so well. Maybe that’s not the best answer, but do you think I should be worried? I definitely like this girl and it seems like we have both invested a lot of time in each other so far, but I am starting to wonder if her updating her profile and being active on the app means she is losing interest/considering other option
If I’ve been seeing someone that long, as a girl, it doesn’t guarantee that I’m not going to go on the app, but if its going well I’m inclined to use it less. And even less so updating my profile.
It would seem from what you send she might be losing interest. I’d just go with the flow and see how things go. Try not to put too much into it now.
Yep, that’s definitely a sign that she is keeping her options open. Apply the Brad Pitt rule, if a girl is 100% interested, the thought of her updating her profile wouldn’t even cross her mind. After this long dating, if I were you, I would tread carefully. Keep your options open too, to avoid getting hurt. Though, I cannot say for sure if this is a red flag, as in that you shouldn’t take the relationship seriously anymore. Maybe others can chime in on that.
She sounds like most people who do OLD. Always looking for something better and a bit disrespectful in the process.
Surely you know after a couple months whether things might go further, if you’re not sure enough that you want to update your dating profile then I would feel like an option on the other end and just cut things off if I had any feelings.
If she just wants to date casually that’s cool, but honest communication about the whole thing is the best policy.
She tryna upgrade you
Ugh I am in this same situation, but I’m the girl and he’s the guy. I only signed on to see if he was still on there, and he is. And he works about 30 miles away so I know he looks at it when he’s at work and then when he’s at home because of the distance (if it sounds like I’m a stalker, well, if the shoe fits.) I guess this isn’t a good sign, huh.
Maybe she doesn’t want to be stuck in something that’s going nowhere?
You’ve been hanging out 6 weeks; chill out and enjoy each other.
Honestly, who cares? If you start going down this line of thinking (like reading this deep into things like an updated profile) then you’re on the road to disaster. Just let things happen naturally.