Dating : how do I get comfortable with the idea of hooking up?
this guy was very nice about me saying before our first date that I want to get to know him before I go any further with him. we went on a walk w his dog the first time I saw him and nothing else. now he invited me over to watch a show. it’s kind of obvious to us both it’s gonna be more a casual relationship so I’m into the idea of him sexually, but not sex just yet. it’s like I want nothing more than to just get with him but then the opportunity comes and I get scared. help mee
Can’t help you here.
You’re probably just not comfortable with the idea of casual sex. I would say most women aren’t. Either way, you’re gonna have to be the one to decide to have casual sex or not, strangers on the internet shouldn’t be talking you into that.
You don’t have to be comfortable with the idea of « hooking up ». Some people enjoy promiscuous lifestyles, but other people find them gross and low class. Nothing wrong with being the latter sort of person.
That’s what well timed BJ’s are for.