Dating : How do you stay cool?
A couple of weeks ago I posted about an Australian girl I went on a date with but beforehand I thought she was so hot she’d cancel. She didn’t cancel and the date lasted 1h30 ish and she told me halfway through the date that she wanted to see me again.
Yesterday she invited me over to her house and I had wine and she didn’t as she wants to be in shape for a holiday and we’ve set up a date for tomorrow (Friday evening). I rarely meet a girl that I can’t wait to see again or someone I’ll be sad about if things don’t work out.
How do you stay calm when you meet someone you like a lot but want to be cool? Also she’s not very communicative and I don’t want to bug her too much.
Hell yeah, that’s awesome. Distract yourself. Do things you want to do. You definitely don’t want to overdo anything and push her away. Just think like you’ve been dating this girl for years and it’s nothing special. Treat it like you’ve got many options even if you don’t. Hang out with friends or get into a new show or book. Literally anything other than sitting around wanting to talk to her will work. Good luck!!
Just remember she’s shown interest in you for you just acting like yourself. You don’t need to impress her, you don’t need to be smooth or suave. You just need to focus on acting like the person you are and don’t over think or analyze things. Don’t worry about what it what not to say. Stay busy some how so you can keep your mind occupied until your next date and just continue to show interest.
Don’t expect anything. Meaning, don’t expect to get physical, don’t expect to get a kiss, just let things go naturally. You’ll feel or sense if she’s ready for you to make a move but until then just enjoy her time and remember that you’re pretty fucking awesome to have this hot girl be interested in you. Help that boost your confidence which will make things easier. Hold your head up high, shoulders back, and smile to yourself about how she likes you, for just you.
I have AC installed, also have it in the car… AND i can start the car remotely and the AC will cool it down before i get there… its like voodoo..