Dating : How does….one move on?
So….I’ve been single for…about a year now. Was dating a high school sweetheart and rebound love, puppy love. Whatever you may call it. I thought it was love….and I was too blind to see the wrong signals. We always argued and weren’t able to communicate properly….she would leave me hanging on planned dates to do sorority stuff in college. I’d be the one apologizing to her to end arguments. She….she wasn’t a proper Dom and forced me to be more submissive then I should have been. Then she took me under a bridge nearby my house and told me she couldn’t date me anymore cause I was like a best friend. I said alright but…imma need time alone to process any of this …cause this heart my heart in a way I’ve never felt before. 2 months later…she texts back angry and upset, because I blocked her ex (who had done horrible things to her) and she got upset because I should’ve given him a chance so…I blocked her. Fast forward to about…a couple days ago. Idk what part of me was curious but it was…and wondered « how’s she doing? » And well….she’s moved on, a new relationship, new guy and just….how does one move on so easily? How does…one move on….when their still learning to pick up the bits of pieces of their mind after their last relationship left them in such a tattered mess that….that scares them into believing that they won’t be able to love again….
