Dating : How on Earth do I [m23] date again with 2 kids?
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I think as long as you’re upfront, you’ll be fine! Granted, some girls will be scared off with the aspect of toddlers but hopefully, you find those who are not judgmental about it!
I always think single mothers are also good options because you both understand each other’s situations. You could also find someone that really loves kids but may be older.
Be honest with yourself about what you want : do you want to date around and have fun? Do you want to feel loved and love? Do you want to be in a serious relationship with someone who will help you raise your kids? You need to be super clear on that.
Then, be upfront about it, either in conversations or on your profiles on dating apps (unless you’re just looking to hook up,then it doesn’t matter).Leave the opportunity to people to disengage early, don’t waste their time and don’t waste yours!
If you feel chemistry with someone and go on a date, don’t talk too much about your kids on a first date. They know you have them already, now it’s about knowing each other. Try to decipher if you’re a good match. Second and third date, I feel like it’s starting to be a good idea to talk a bit about your kids, state how much of a priority they are to you and ease them I to what you’re looking for.
Also, please don’t introduce your partner to your kids early on. Please please please. I’m always so shocked at people who introduce their kids to the person they’re dating like a month or two month in. I’d say wait at least six months.