Dating : I 41f did something a little crazy and out of character
I was chatting with a guy on bumble. So cute, convo just flowed. A little bit of serious and flirty and just natural. Unfortunately we were in different places in our lives where he couldn’t give what I desired for the long term. So I decided it was better we go our separate ways and we unmatched.
I started talking to this other guy who was into me and made efforts to be available, but I really wasn’t feeling it and I couldn’t get this bumble guy off my mind. My gut told me i ok I made a mistake. He was easily found in facebook and for a week and a half I debated messaging him but I was too scared I would look too psycho and I was sure it was going to end in embarrassment and rejection.
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Well, he wouldn’t get out of my head. I decided to reach out from FB look k k mmessenger. And to my shock he replied. He didn’t block me. He actually found it flattering. And remembered who I was instantly. And we flowed right back into our convo and plan to go out this upcoming week.
I am shocked he didn’t freak out and I am so glad I shot my shot. Sure, this maybe not be a serious relationship. Probably a FWB situation. But I have no regrets reaching out and admitting I may have made a mistake
I wish more women would be like this, don’t be scared, guys hardly ever block women.
Girl, when I met my now husband he must have said 200 times “I’m not looking for a girlfriend”. 3 weeks in he told me he loved me, we’ve been together now for over 18 years. Married for 11. Don’t listen to men, a lot of them say things that they think they’re supposed to say and don’t mean it and when shit is right, it’s right and no smart person is going to walk away from a good thing no matter what it is they thought they were looking for.
Great, guys don’t usually block women.
Great! NOW LET’S FUCK!
If the guy didn’t give you his full name or his socials, then it’s stalking.
So yeah, you acted crazy.
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