Dating : I told my guy friend of 2 years that I had feelings for him and he said he was shocked?
He said he wanted to continue being friends but that it was a bit of a shock… im not sure whether to feel insulted by it or not. Hes infatuated with this girl who has a fiancee…so not really sure if thats kind of why… idk.
Honestly I would move on I wouldn’t feel insulted by it he probably wasn’t expecting anyone to have feelings for him that’s probably why he was shocked about it. ( from what I’ve read )
Yeah move on woman. The fact he focus more into a woman who is taken is a red flag
Nah don’t feel insulted. He just wasn’t expecting his friend (you) to have feelings for him
You were brave to share your feelings. You acknowledge what was true. Like the others commenters said, his reaction is a red flag.
He is shocked because you are the first woman to tell him you have feelings for him which us rare