Dating : Is he too embarrassed to reach out?

Dating : Is he too embarrassed to reach out?

Matched with this guy, went out for drinks that evening. We exchanged numbers before meeting up.

For context, I’m a 24F – just got out of long relationship and was looking to just spend time and have sex.

He was super cute – I was down to have sex with him from the moment I saw him. We grabbed drinks at a few different locations throughout the night. We talked – he asked me questions about work and life.

It was a little awkward in the beginning but by the end we were laughing and he was being sweet. He held doors open for me and paid for drinks. We’re similar ages and professions – we have things in common. Prob not a crazy love thing, but it was nice.

We went back to his place, smoked, and had sex. The only issue was that he came really fast – within 2 or 3 minutes. This happened a few times. (Though he didn’t strike me as super inexperienced.)

I didn’t think too much of it – I actually took it as a complement. But lying in bed, he did say that he felt awkward that he came so fast.

When we rolled over to go to sleep, I thought about heading out and getting a cab so as not to overstay my welcome. I was drunk and high, and didn’t want to risk stumbling around, so just decided to stay asleep.

In the AM, like 5 am, we had sex again – he again came really fast. Overall, I think he enjoyed himself, he asked me a bunch of questions about what types of things I liked in bed, positions, etc.

Finally his alarm rang and he said he had to go to work. I dressed and left. At the door I said “goodbye”, and he said “goodbye” (literally those words). I was exhausted and still sort of stoned, so didn’t really think ahead.

I went to work and checked my phone over the next few days. I didn’t expect anything crazy – he was leaving for a work trip a few days after and it had been a pretty casual thing. Now it’s been five days (he’s on the work trip now, I assume), with no contact since I left his place.

I guess I have a few questions, mostly because I’m fresh out of a very long relationship and don’t know what’s normal, etc.

Is it possible that he’s too embarrassed about coming so fast to text me? Does he assume I’m not into it?

I honestly can’t judge how attractive I am – I don’t know if I’m out of his league or he’s out of mine!

Generally, though, I’ve learned that if he’s interested, he’ll reach out. Is this silence a sign that he doesn’t want to see me again?

I’m not looking for anything crazy – I’m just a little
surprised that I gave him great head, was vocal and engaged during sex to the point where he couldn’t help cumming so quickly(!), etc, and didn’t even get a “hey” text!

I can obviously go out with someone else and drop it, I just feel like we both invested one night and know that we’re both normal – why not have sex a few more times? Wouldn’t he think this way?

Any thoughts? What do you think the objective situation here is and what should I do?